Thursday Tip: Spinach Salsa Queso Dip

I don’t know about you, but with it being the holiday season, I have a series of potlucks on my calendar. I’m always looking for something quick and easy but also tasty to bring in.  In case you hadn’t figured out from previous posts, I LOVE my slow cooker (see here, here, and here), so when my office was having a dip contest, I once again turned to my trusty slow cooker.  This recipe only has a few ingredients, is super easy to make, and I don’t mean to brag (okay, maybe I do), but I won the dip contest, so I can assure you it’s quite tasty.

Spinach Salsa Queso Dip


10 oz frozen chopped spinach, thawed and drained
1 lb reduced fat Velveeta cheese
8 oz light cream cheese
12 oz salsa
cilantro, optional


Cut Velveeta and cream cheese into smallish cubes.  Combine all ingredients in slow cooker.  Cook on low for approximately one hour, stirring occasionally.  Serve warm with tortilla chips.

Note: You can also heat using the oven or microwave.  For other cooking options, see original post here.

Thursday Tip: Rent the Runway

If you’re like me, then a vital part of enjoying an event, whether it be a wedding, work event, or girls night out, is looking and feeling your best, and part of looking and feeling my best usually involves a new outfit.  The problem is, if I buy something for a specific event, I don’t generally want to wear that same outfit for the next big event- I want something fresh and new. So intentionally or not, I’m buying things that I only wear once. On top of that comes the hassle of running from store to store trying to find something I love. I usually have an image in my head of how I want to look, and once I get shopping, can’t find anything that looks and feels quite right.

Allow me to introduce you to an amazing fashion concept called Rent the Runway.

We were invited to an outdoor wedding this past weekend in the mountains (L was the flower girl!) This was part of my motivation for trying out a rental- I really only have summer dresses and needed something more fall weather appropriate. I heard about Rent the Runway quite a while ago, but put off trying them out because it seemed really impractical to spend money on a dress I was only renting, but when I really stopped and looked at the things I’ve bought and only worn once or twice, or wore because I was settling and couldn’t find anything better, I decided it was probably time to try it out.  They have a good number of rentals that start in the $30-$50 range, and to me, that’s totally worth it for the chance to wear a good quality, designer dress.

Additionally, I like that they have a TON of dresses in their inventory, and I was able to do all of my shopping online (in other words, I really enjoyed shopping from the comfort of my own bed while L slept and I ate chocolate eclairs, instead of the alternative where I’m sweaty from going store to store and chasing around a toddler and praying she doesn’t crawl under the dressing room door while I’m half naked from trying on dresses that I like on the hanger, but hate on me and getting progressively more frustrated).

So, your next concern might be- if I have to try on a zillion dresses in the store and hate the way almost all of them fit me, how would relying on ONE dress I found online be any more reliable?  One word. Reviews.  Rent the Runway’s customers are really good about leaving helpful reviews, but the MOST helpful part of the reviews is that you can narrow down the reviewers to read reviews from women with your body type, and a lot of them will post a picture of them wearing the dress. That is FAR more helpful than looking at something on a hanger and deciding if it will look right on you. (Newsflash: I don’t know anyone with “hanger” for body type.)  Also, they allow you to pick a 2nd size for free, just in case.

After careful research, I finally decided on this dress, because the color, cut and style seemed appropriate for out outdoor fall wedding, and I thought it would fit me well based on the reviews.  All I had to do was pick my delivery date (they recommend one day before your event), and I was good to go.  My dress arrived at my doorstep the day before we left for the weekend, and I was SO THRILLED once I tried it on.  It was exactly what I wanted.  The fit was great, it was comfortable, it flattered me, and I knew the rental was so, so worth it.  I got several compliments on the dress and even got the stamp of approval from JD, who liked it so much, he asked how much it would cost to keep the dress!

Rent the Runway even makes the return super easy.  You don’t have to clean the dress yourself, all you have to do is put it in the pre-labeled, pre-paid envelope, and drop it off at a UPS drop-off by noon on your return date.

Honestly, I wish I had another event coming up so I had an excuse to rent another dress.

I don’t really ever go to black tie events, but if I did… this one please.

How much fun would this one be for a girls’ night?

If you sign up using this link, you’ll get a $20 credit towards your first rental!

Sadly, there isn’t a great picture of me in the dress.  I should have demanded that someone take one, but I’m a mom, so most pictures of me generally involve me awkwardly holding/hiding behind a toddler.

I guess what you really need to know is that I felt great, and that makes it worth every penny.





Thursday Tip- Creating a Joint Family Gmail Calendar

Adding a Joint Calendar

It’s hard to have a daily routine when your schedule is constantly changing. It’s also hard to plan ahead or make plans with people.  Night shift, day shift, work from home, travel, in service training, off duty work, babysitter vs. JD’s grandma vs. family friend for child care… it’s a LOT to keep track of. And L is only 1- she doesn’t have her own schedule of activities and get togethers yet. It’s going to get worse, people.

To help maintain sanity, I created a Gmail calendar that JD and I can use jointly and syncs to our phones.  It’s been life changing, to say the least. If someone asks if we’re available, I can quickly check the calendar. If JD signs up for off duty, he can add it to the calendar in case he forgets to tell me (which happens quite often). I set alerts for things I’m afraid I’ll forget, add an address that I can easily GPS when it’s time to leave, and create popup reminders for things I need to bring to certain events.

For me, I have 3 calendars- personal, family, and Loralai’s daycare schedule; the family and daycare calendars are shared with JD.  Call it hyper-organized or OCD, but it’s saved us a lot of hassle and confusion.

I thought I’d share the basic instructions on how to do this. I’m assuming 2 things here- you and your significant other each have a Gmail account (or a joint Gmail account) and that you have smart phones.

First, you have to create the calendar.

Log in to your Gmail account, and in the top right corner of the page, you’ll see a grid with 9 boxes. Click on that grid to open menu options, then select Calendar.


You will be taken to your default calendar. On the left side, there is a red button that will allow to create a new event, a month view below that, and below that a drop down called “My Calendars.” Select the arrow on the right “My Calendars,” and it will allow you to Create a New Calendar.


On the next screen, you’ll need to name your calendar, select your time zone, and enter the email address(es) that you want to share with. Be sure to select the correct permissions for each person you share the calendar with. If you want them to be able to add and change events, you will need to select one of those options from the Permission Settings to the right of their email address.


Now, click Create Calendar at the top of the screen!


Anyone invited to the calendar will receive an email notifying them of the new calendar and the calendar will be automatically added to their Gmail account. Everyone invited to the calendar will be able to access it under My Calendars on the left side of the screen.


To create an event, select the red “Create” button and fill out all of the information.image007


A few features to highlight…

**Be sure to select the right calendar from the Calendar dropdown to make sure the event populates to your joint calendar


**Use the reminder settings to either send an email reminder and/or a pop-up that will appear on your phone, if you’d like (I am a reminder fiend). Note: Reminder settings will NOT populate to the other user(s) of your joint calendar. So if I set up a reminder, my husband will not get that same reminder. He could manually set his own, if he wanted (he doesn’t, but he could).


Once you’re finished, be sure to hit the “Save” button!


Once saved, the event will automatically populate on desktop and mobile devices (assuming the calendar is synced to the mobile device) for all calendar users.

And speaking of syncing…

The instructions are different for each type of mobile device.  I’m not going to detail out sync instructions for the different device types, but I’ve linked to some instructions below, for reference.

iPhone or iPad




Thursday Tip- Salmon with Mango-Avocado Salsa

Dare I say it? Spring is FINALLY here.  With the weather on what I hope is its final upswing, I’m craving warm weather food, which to me means light meals with fresh ingredients.  Since I haven’t posted a recipe in a while, it seemed like a great time to share one of the favorites in our house, Salmon with Mango-Avocado Salsa.  This recipe is the definition of light and fresh, and the kick of the spices is countered with the sweetness in the salsa. Bonus: It’s super easy to make (assuming you don’t mind a little chopping).

The original recipe calls for the salmon to be grilled, but since we didn’t have a decent grill until this year, we’ve gotten in the habit of baking the salmon (the spices and salsa are what make the recipe anyway). I’m sure we’ll get around to grilling it one of these days, but for now… here’s our version.


Salmon with Mango-Avocado Salsa


For the salmon:

  • 1½ to 2 pounds boneless salmon fillets
  • 3 teaspoons butter
  • 1 garlic clove, crushed
  • 1½ teaspoon paprika
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • ½ teaspoon oregano
  • ½ teaspoon cumin
  • ½ teaspoon chili powder
  • ½ teaspoon pepper
  • ¼ teaspoon thyme
  • ¼ teaspoon cayenne

For the salsa:

  • 1 mango
  • 1 avocado
  • 1 tomato
  • 1 onion
  • 1 teaspoon fresh lime juice
  • ½ teaspoon salt


  1. Preheat oven to 450 degrees
  2. Slice the salmon evenly into 4 to 6 smaller fillets.
  3. Place salmon on a foil-lined baking pan
  4. Combine the butter and all of the spices in a bowl. Rub all over both sides of the salmon.
  5. Bake salmon for 12-15 minutes
  6. While the salmon cooks, peel, seed and dice all of the salsa ingredients, then combine together in a bowl
  7. Serve salmon warm, topped with the mango salsa

Best enjoyed on a back patio with a glass of wine 🙂

Thursday Tip- Teething Remedies


As mentioned in Tuesday’s post, Loralai’s recent battle with teething has been hard… on everyone in the family.  There’s a lot of suggestions out there for teething remedies, and at this point, we’ve tried nearly all of them.  Of course, things that work great for one kiddo may not for another, but here is a wide variety of options, all in one place.  Good luck!

1. Hylands Teething Tablets: Probably one of the most useful things we’ve tried.  She loves them, they seem to help, they dissolve quickly on her tongue, and they’re homeopathic (hippie-tastic)!  These things are gold in tablet form.

2. Baby Orajel Naturals: I originally stayed away from Baby Orajel after I read about the risks of giving products that contain Benzocaine to babies.  However, I later found out that the Naturals version does NOT have Benzocaine in it, and it seems to help.

3. Amber teething necklace: Part-time and full-fledged hippie moms alike swear by these.  These  are NOT for chewing- there are oils in the amber that are absorbed by the skin and offer natural pain relief.  Plus, I get a lot of compliments on her “cute” necklace (of course, once I excitedly explain about the magic hippie beads, people seem sorry they brought it up).  To some, this may too new-age (and a little far-fetched), but I swear the worst days she’s had have been when she didn’t have the necklace on.

There are a ton of options on Etsy; I ordered ours from this shop.  Some parents worry about the necklaces being a choking hazard- this is where you just have to do what feels right for you.  Ours is very well-made and I’ve never worried about it falling apart or L being in any danger.

4. Baby Ibuprofen/Tylenol: These days, it seems that people are one extreme or the other when it comes to medication.  I’m only part-hippie.  While I don’t want to overmedicate, I do think that medicine is going to help more than hurt if she’s absolutely inconsolable.  I can’t blame her either- sometimes you just need the good stuff.

5. Castor oil: Mix a drop of this with a tablespoon of carrier oil (such as olive or almond oil) and rub on your baby’s gums.  I swear it works better and more quickly than the Orajel.  The one thing you have to be careful is that you dilute it, and when you dilute it, you have to use a carrier oil and not water.  Test on yourself first to make sure it’s not too strong and will irritate your little one’s mouth!

6. Frozen teethers: Not such a hit with her.  I think she doesn’t like that when she holds them, her hands get cold too.  I can’t really blame her for that.

7. Frozen peas/crushed ice: The frozen peas were recommended by my mother-in-law.  Because they’re frozen, they feel good on her gums (without making her hands cold like the frozen teethers), and once she gnaws on them a bit, they get mushy enough for her to swallow (though if you’re nervous about choking, a friend recommended crushed ice, which would melt).  The success rate for this has been about 50/50.  Sometimes it seems  to give her relief, sometimes it only serves as a distraction.

Some moms also use mesh teethers and put a frozen strawberry or something in there.  The mesh part eliminates the choking hazard and most babies love the strawberry 🙂  

8. Distraction: as mentioned in Tuesday’s post, good, old-fashioned distraction works wonders. As long as she’s busy playing and having a good time, she doesn’t stop to think about her teeth, but watch out when you put her in the car seat to leave or get up off the floor to do something else.  Game. Over.


Some things I haven’t tried-

Sophie the Giraffe: This is a must have for a lot of moms, but I hesitated from buying one of these when I read a review where a mom reported that her baby rolled onto it and one of the legs jammed down his throat (he was fine, but I knew I wouldn’t be able to stop worrying about it if she had one).   I later found this version, which eliminates the worry with the legs, and I kind of wish we had one because I think L would probably love it.

Vibrating Teether: The vibration offers a gum massage, although every time I think of getting one, I get a vision of L with a confused, panicked look on her face.  If I come across one, I may try it sometime, but I haven’t gone out of my way to get one.



Thursday Tip- Pay It Forward

One time a couple of years ago, a stranger in front of me at the Starbucks drive-thru paid for my coffee.  Not only did it make my day, but it moved something in me.  What a simple, kind act that cost the stranger no time and only a few bucks, but filled my heart with joy.

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I have taken that lesson with me, and when the mood strikes, I’ll pay for the coffee for the person behind me.  My hope is that they’ll be inspired to pay it forward too, and that each of us can find our own way to spread love and joy into the world.  

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Why not…

Keep a bottle of water and a granola bar in your car for the next homeless person you see? (I know some people don’t like giving money)

Let someone cut in front of you at the grocery check out?

Compliment someone you don’t know who’s wearing a cool piece of jewelry or has a nice haircut?

Wait longer than you normally would to hold the door for someone behind you?

Leave an anonymous note on a co-worker’s desk, letting them know something you admire about them?

Give an extra generous tip to someone who went above and beyond in the service industry?

Move that stray shopping cart into the cart corral?

Take coffee or a muffin to your child’s teacher or babysitter? (I just thought of this one- I need to do this for L’s babysitter!)

… and those are very basic ideas.  For more inspiration, visit The Random Acts of Kindness Foundation.  Cool stuff!

Do you have an idea or do you have experience with giving or receiving random acts of kindness?  I would LOVE if you would comment with an idea/inspiration!  If I get enough ideas, I’ll make another post about it (fellow bloggers, this means I would link to your blog, hint-hint).

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Thursday Tip- Mint Chocolate Cookie Recipe

A friend of mine introduced me to this cookie recipe back when we were in college.  It’s been a holiday favorite ever since.  Careful- they’re addicting!


1/2 cup brown sugar
2 3/4 cup flour
2 tablespoons water
2 3/4 cup margarine
2 cups chocolate chips
1 1/4 tsp baking soda
2 eggs
2 boxes andes chocolate mints

In a large saucepan over low heat (or in microwave) cook margarine, sugar and water until margarine is melted.  Add chocolate chips and stir till completely melted.
Pour into large mixing bowl and let stand 10 minutes.  Then, at high speed on the mixer, beat in eggs one at a time.  Reduce to low speed and add dry ingredients beating until blended.  Chill dough at least 1 hour.
Preheat over to 350 degrees.  Line cookie sheet with foil (this is important), roll dough into balls (about 1 tsp in size).   Place 2 inches apart.  Bake 12-13 minutes- NO LONGER.  They will crisp as they cool.
Remove from oven and immediately place a mint on each cookie.  Swirl mint with spoon when slightly melted.
Makes 4-5 dozen cookies.
Jenny’s Shortcuts and Tips:  I don’t wait the 10 minutes or the full hour and the cookies still come out fine.  I do put the dough in the fridge for at least a little bit before I put it on the cookie sheets otherwise it’s super gooey and sticks to my fingers.  Definitely put the mints on as soon as you take the cookies out of the oven, otherwise they might not fully melt.  The cookies are best when they’re soft- I generally bake them for 10 minutes and check if they need to stay in there another minute or 2.  Have fun and enjoy! 🙂

Thursday Tip- Slow Cooker Holiday Recipes- Mac N Cheese and Mashed Potatoes

Just enough time this week to pop in with an early Thursday Tip.  Here are a few favorite slow cooker holiday recipes, perfect to take to a potluck or host a large group at home.

First up is a favorite at the office (I’ve taken a double batch in for several work potlucks now), Paula Deen’s Slow Cooker Mac N Cheese.  Okay, I admit 1. I’m not a huge fan of Paula Deen (not even before the whole “racist” shenanigans) and 2. This is ridiculously unhealthy for you.  The thing is, it’s outrageously delicious, serves a large group, and is super easy to make.  Sold.

I’ve made a few of my own tweaks to the recipe, but you can find the original here.

Slow Cooker Mac N Cheese
(Serves 12)


2 cups elbow macaroni, cooked and drained
4 tablespoons (1/2 stick) butter, cut into pieces
2 1/2 cups grated sharp cheddar cheese
1/2 cup sour cream
1 can condensed cheddar cheese soup
1/2 teaspoon salt
1 cup whole milk
1/2 teaspoon dry mustard
1/2 teaspoon black pepper


Combine all ingredients in slow cooker.  Cook on low for 3 hours, stirring occasionally.

Yes, that’s truly it.  Paula has you melting the cheese and butter ahead of time and adding 3 eggs.  I don’t have time for that shiz.  Plus, if you haven’t already gathered, I’m an incredibly lazy cook.  So I was like “screw you Paula, your pre-melted sauce, and your eggs.”  Guess what?  Came out the same as when I followed the directions.  When I take this one in for a potluck, I cook the macaroni the night before and keep it in the fridge overnight.  In the morning, I grab all my ingredients and go, then throw everything in there and start cooking it at work.  Don’t panic if your cheese looks clumpy when it first starts to cook.  It all melts together beautifully over time (just be sure to stir it every once in a while).

Next up?  Another classic holiday side dish.  Mashed potatoes- in the slow cooker- and you don’t have to peel them!  Mind blown, right?  Mashed potatoes are tricky as a potluck food, so I was super excited when I found this recipe and could bring mashed potatoes to our holiday potluck last year.

Slow Cooker Mashed Potatoes
(Serves 12)


5 lbs red potatoes (or sierra gold), diced and unpeeled
1 cup water
1 cup butter, cut into pieces
1 tablespoon salt
3/4 teaspoon ground black pepper
1 1/3 cup milk


Combine all ingredients except milk in slow cooker.  Cook on high for 4 hours.  After 4 hours, mash potatoes by hand or with a mixer.  Add as much milk as needed till you achieve the right consistency.

Yes, that’s it.  For the potluck I just did the same kind of thing as I did for the mac n cheese- I cut up the potatoes the night before and took all ingredients into work with me so it could cook.  Yes, I also took a potato masher (the potatoes get so soft that mashing is no biggie).

Hope everyone has a safe and happy Thanksgiving!


Thursday Tip- Unique Holiday Gifts From Etsy

So, there are 2 things you need to know about me

1: I LOVE shopping

2: I HATE holiday crowds

Dealing with Christmas crowds especially has always been a nightmare to me.  The last few years, I’ve relied heavily on online shopping at Amazon (free shipping, what what!) and Etsy.

Etsy, for those of you who’ve never shopped here (careful, it’s addictive) is an online store where people from all over the world can have their own “shops” to sell hand made or vintage items.  On Etsy, you can find totally unique, hand made, WELL made items and support small business owners, NOT big box stores.

In need of a little holiday inspiration?  Here are some of my favorite Etsy shops:

For friends with little ones, cute hats and headbands are always a hit.  This shop sells the most adorable hats and headbands.  Oh, and they even have an Ohio State one, which I recommend for everyone you know 😉

Want something a little more practical that they won’t grow out of in 2 seconds?  We got our friends’ son a step stool on his 2nd birthday.  I don’t mean to brag, but they still have it in their downstairs bathroom.  Oh, and we got it personalized with his name.  This shop sells super cute ones.

Would you rather buy the kids on your list a toy, or do you have an itty bitty one to shop for?  I  love, love, love the wooden toys, rattles, teethers, and games at this shop.  I bought L her very first rattle and teether at this shop, and they are 2 of her faves.

I could literally spend hours perusing Etsy’s array of jewelry shops.  I love shopping here for my mom, mother-in-law, and friends.  Love the simple, but personalized jewelry in this shop and this necklace would be really cute for a mom or grandma.

Men are always hard to shop for, but wouldn’t a wallet like this be fun?

Like vintage?  Etsy has that too!  Wouldn’t something like this make a fun, unique gift for a family member (or a wedding gift for a friend)!  (Full disclosure? This is actually my mom’s shop… this post is NOT intended to be a plug for her shop, I just truly love Etsy).

So those are a few of my faves, but I honestly haven’t even scratched the surface of what’s out there.  Personally, I’d much rather sit in the comfort of my own home with a warm cup of coffee and browse online for fun gifts than fight crowds of cranky people at the mall.  Happy shopping!

Thursday Tip- Car Seat Poncho

The fall chill has arrived here in NC, and a few weeks ago, I had to bundle L up in a coat before leaving the house.


It wasn’t until I got her to the car that I was faced with a dilemma.  I had taken the time to bundle her up and get her out to the car (we don’t have a garage), only to realize that I now had to take her coat off before buckling her into the seat.  (I think a lot of moms don’t know this, and I didn’t know this till I read it on someone else’s blog, but it’s actually a huge no-no to buckle your baby into the car seat while wearing a bulky coat.)

It seemed like such a hassle to get her into the coat only to take it back off when we got to the car, then do it all over again when we arrived at our destination.  Since she’s out of her infant car seat and into her convertible car seat, the go-to car seat covers wouldn’t work for us anymore.  So, I reached out to other moms via my Facebook page to see what they do in the same situation.

One of my friends saw my post and texted me a link to the Car Seat Poncho.  Um, genius.  One of those why didn’t I think of that? moments.

Okay, disclaimer. I don’t actually own one of these ponchos, and I probably won’t be buying one, just because Loralai already has quite the collection of coats so we’ll probably just wrap her in the coat till we get to the car, then use the coat as a blanket.  But I still think it’s a great idea, and might be useful to other mamas out there.